Monday, November 7, 2011

Girls? Would you date guys like me?

I think what you're really saying is - that you've got a mind, feelings and a moral code and you would not want to link up with some shallow, amoral female who only thinks, feels and does what the mes or the media tell her. In other words, you are not mainstream and never will be - and you dont want to be either. You're an individual. Believe me, there are absolutely thousands of other people, male and female, like you but because they lead quieter lives they dont tend to get noticed so much. What tends to happen is that childhood for these people tends to be pretty painful because of all the loud, shallow conscienceless other guys who you just dont fit in with. Then when you get a bit older and start to gravitate towards groups, hobbies, cles, activities or work that specifically caters to your type of sensitive, deep thinking personality, you suddenly meet all sorts of friends who all talk the same language and come from the same planet. You sound like the sort of person who would prefer to get to know a girl gradually and find out what she's like as a friend first, so do consider the sorts of groups and cles that would enable you to mix with people generally - and you might make important friendships too. So forget about the in-crowd, and relish and enjoy your uniqueness because when you meet a girl that you are really attracted to, you will both have a really rich deep relationship to explore. And yes, your reasons for wanting another Catholic are very sound, because as you say a person's faith is very important. But dont be too rigid about when you will start dating. Love tends to shoot its arrows regardless of humans agendas, and you might find it comes sooner than you expectecd.

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