If gay couples are allowed to marry and adopt children...?

i'm a and my ex and i both had kids. they were 7,8 12 when we got together. all three are still alive. alot of kids think it's cool to have two dads or two moms. it's the stupid people who don't teach their children to accept people for who they are and to understand that everybody is different, that shouldn't be parents. to parent is to teach.